Changing... should you? Do you?

So I'm watching Grease right now, and I'm wondering how do people feel about changing for the people who they are attracted to or are in relationships with. I feel like Danny may have been pretending to be someone he wasn't on the beach, or maybe he really was a nice guy who just put on an act at school...but Sandy definitely changed to be acceptable to Danny at the end.






We all know change is constant and therefore inevitable, but is it good or bad to actively try to change for another? There's a difference between trying to better yourself and trying to be someone you're not.


I think I sometimes try to change for others, but I end up judging myself and stopping most of the time. I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. Hmm. Oh well. Just wondering.